I had my little girl when I was in my early 30s. A year and a few days after my first wedding anniversary. For me, it was love before sight. I was ready to be a mum before she came along, I loved being around kids and she fitted in snugly for me.

It was easy when she arrived, though, we struggled financially, but, she was one of those kids who are satisfied with little. The difficulty we were in was not accentuated by her needs. She fed well and was full of life, all she ever wanted was being around her family.